1. Look like velvet, act like steel, smell like vanilla!
2. Everything I know about men I learned from riding a horse.
3. Be authentic: trust yourself.
4. Take the big leap of faith: the universe wants to give you everything. Make space.
5. Be a contrarian.
6. Find the best future fit for you, step out of that old box, and be committed to your dreams.
7. Just when you think it might be possible, you find it’s completely unlimited. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with matters of the heart, you’ll know it when you see it.
8. Inspired leaders make decisions and communicate from the inside out. They challenge the status quo.
9. It begins with a thought-then words-then action! It’s fun to live dreams and step outside comfort zones!
10. On making career changes: You know it’s time when your alarm goes off and you throw the blanket over your head and cry! Time to move on!
11. In times of bad weather: cook, create, write, connect with some precious you that you sometimes miss, or connect with someone who needs a connection. Watch old movies. And shop online!
12. Taking risks is the ultimate authentic luxury.
13. When someone tries to trip you up or you find yourself stumbling, stop and see where you land. It may be the perfect spot!
14. People who are too full of ego and themselves are uncool. Stay cool with your feet on the ground, eyes looking upward. We are all one.
15. The Credo: PICKING BEST:
(Technology to Create and Enhance Your Career… and your Life… Beyond Your Wildest Imagination!)
Passion
Integrity
Commitment
Knowledge with Understanding
Instinctiveness
Notable Authenticity
Gratitude
Balance
Elevation
Sharing
Truth
16. How to handle mean people? Wear your best sweet and push forward….and get as far away as you can!
17. When it snows, wear great winter clothes, don’t wash your hair (unless you want to), count snowflakes, make snow angels, build snow castles and play! Or if you are with someone special, wear your best negligee and snow boots, then step outside in the snow for a kiss.
18. Be true to yourself and treat yourself to some blonde time.
19. When a slow and lazy Monday frustrates, go with it. Don’t fight it, as your body and/or mind may need to rest. Be inspired ..on Tuesday!
20. A perfect evening can be a carefully shopped home-cooked meal, a creative endeavor, love, and trust. A reminder: all of this can happen during a solo ce soir!
21. When designing (or even choosing) a residence, remember classic lines, ceiling heights, bathtubs, and fireplaces! And less is more! In real estate, buy what you love and make it better. Be prepared to stay with it if necessary, but always develop and encourage an exit strategy.
22. Always return phone calls, answer emails, and floss after eating. Everything your Mama taught you equals success, happiness and love. Blondes have good manners which never go out of fashion.
23. Remember that the journey continues. There are no endings……ever!
24. Never cut what can be untied but do whatever it takes when it is the time for new beginnings!
25. Heaven on earth is love, kindness, generosity, community, thinking healthy, being healthy, and taking inspiration from everything: nature, exercise, sleep, meditation, dream and prayer.
26. Go to sleep with a plan and a smile, preferably in someone you love’s arms or thoughts. Wake up and be ready to execute your dreams.
27. Truth, kindness, generosity, and bravery are the new black. Wear your best this season and every season going forward.
28. The difference between jazz and blues lies in the ear of the beholder.
29. Love: It’s in everything you are, do, say, and think. Just do it.
30. Adversity and other silly notions: They’re all beautiful and help you be more you!
31. As for greedy bullies – get away as fast as possible! Cut your costs! Forgive! Move On and Rock It! Find your Inner Blonde!
32. Every so often, you may want to say “Tweet” because what you actually wish to say may ruffle so many feathers that it is sometimes best to just say “Tweet”. And besides, Tweety Bird is a blonde. Well….yellow anyway.
33. Eat frozen yogurt with colored sprinkles.
34. Work. Dream. Eat. Drink. Sleep. Exercise. Meditate. Craft the year of your dreams!
35. Trauma…let it go. Let it go. Let it go!
36. When traveling, make your own way, live your own adventure and remember every moment!
37. Beat the holiday blues with headspace! Being present is the best gift for you and others!
38. When you fall into a black hole, real or imagined or a bit of both, trust yourself! Breathe! Think before you speak!
39. Live the dream, but more importantly, dream your life!
40. The most splendid feeling in the world: freedom. Free your inner blonde!
41. “I don’t mind living in a man’s world as long as I can be a woman in it.” – Marilyn Monroe.
42. Blonde is not a color; it is a state of mind!
43. Be kinder than necessary and know that each act of kindness changes everything just a little bit. Together, we can transform the world.
44. Know you can look both sexy and appropriate!
45. A Daddy’s Girl will forever be okay. She’s tough, smart, knows the ropes, and dances!
46. When drinking alcohol, go slow and sip water between wine or cocktails. After too much of a party, meditate and work out. SWEAT!
47. A blonde Sunday morning consists of prayer, meditation, and exercise. Do at least one thing special for a person you love and don’t expect anything in return. Eat a healthy brunch. Watch some great TV. And clean your closets!
47. The quieter I become, the more I hear.
48. Dance in the rain! Don’t stress about the Manolos!
49. Nail it! Literally and figuratively. Blondes get what they want and have great manicures!
50. If you don’t (yet) have a vacation home, create one inside your head. Let your mind take a holiday from time to time.
51. Don’t throw rocks at girls unless they are diamonds…or sapphires or rubies or emeralds.
52. Swinging? Just do it (even if only in your imagination).
53. Sing your own special song, even if nobody else sings along. That’s blonde music.
54. Create the space and a miracle will happen.
55. “Some men see things as they are and say, ’Why?’ I dream of things that never were, and say, ‘Why not?’”- George Bernard Shaw (applies to women as well!)
56. Don’t be a monkey! Eat, walk, read, rest, work with full presence.
57. Don’t talk to strangers who want to play. Be careful. Trust yourself.
58. If something isn’t working, try to change the way you see it. If it still feels like it isn’t worth the pain or there’s a definite lack of joy, sit quietly until the answer comes. It will! Never let anything or anyone (including yourself) imprison you. Life is meant to be lived with passion, love, joy, kindness, and fun.
59. If a blonde were to become a cookie, she’d wanna be dipped in milk!
60. I know you’ve heard this before…but don’t get high on your own supply (of bleach or anything else).
61. Everything possesses beauty but not everyone can see it.
62. The sky is the limit but you have to stand on your tiptoes with outstretched arms to reach it! Are your air rights intact?
63. The ultimate crush? Go for adorable, loyal, and patient. Tail wagging is a major plus.
64. Men to hang out with? Cool and beautiful-out! Kind, giving, and beautiful-in!
65. “The power of imagination makes us infinite.” John Muir
66. Ouch! Let it be known that big blonde girls do cry. They also create, celebrate, and love. Tears are part of the story of life.
67. Share! Do it. Whenever. Wherever. Begin at home with yourself.
68. For new beginnings, start with a thought, then words, then action. It’s fun to step outside your comfort zone and into your dreams!
69. Truth and love equal happiness!
70. Invest in real estate, art, and jewelry. Hold for the future. (With real estate, always purchase at a location you love, can look at, or are willing to live in forever.)
71. Be true to yourself in order to achieve freedom and joy in both daily undertakings and your career.
72. If you feel it, do it! But when something doesn’t feel right, seek a quiet place, meditate, listen and trust yourself. Put in a check with your past pain and ego.
73. Goldilocks needs to forget the porridge and listen to the secrets. She should be sweet to the Big Bears in her life.
74. What’s cooking? Peace of mind, love, kindness, creativity, art, and your profession.
75. Sometimes the best thing you’ll read all day is written on a wall.
76. Always say a little prayer for yourself…and for others that you love.
77. As so many people tend to underrate blondes, it is so easy for us to impress them with our competence.
78. “People are more impressed by the power of our example than the example of our power.” – Bill Clinton
79. Create with love and passion. Just open your channels and it will always work.
80. Always dine with someone you love, even if it is only you. Smile and enjoy nutritious food. And a glass of wine. Why not? Feed yourself as you would nourish a loved one in need of tender care.
81. Everything happens for a reason. Every good blonde must believe this beyond all else.
82. Celebrate birthdays. Put on some pretty party clothes! Be grateful. Count blessings. Buy gifts for loved ones. The give is the get!
83. Insanity? We’ll take it! Well….a little bit.
84. Understand where you come from and know where you are going. Always remember to be bold and authentic. And dance!
85. Elevators go up and down. Be sure to enjoy the ride.
86. “All the reasonings of men are not worth one sentiment of women.” – Voltaire.
87. Don’t live with bad choices if you can dispose of them. Make your world better by elevating and editing.
88. Instincts: Blondes have them and must trust them. We developed our instincts over eons and need them to survive. Our instincts save us from so many mistakes and take us where we need to go.
89. Always do your best. Be the best blonde you can be. Life is full of surprises, some enchanting and some disheartening. Practice the art of calm.
90. Hurray up and go slow. By staying in the moment and connecting to a higher power, you will find joy, knowledge, creativity, and patience.
91. “Let us never negotiate out of fear but let us never fear to negotiate.” – John F. Kennedy.
92. Do what it takes! There should be no boundaries, no limits, to dreams coming true. It all begins at home.
93. Be one of the girls who can be one of the boys but always remain a lady.
94. There are really only two emotions: love and fear. Darkness is only the absence of light. In order to attract something, know that it’s already in your hands.
95. The people you meet today are a gift yet to be revealed, so pay close attention. Thoughts they share may become our inspirations.
96. In order to become successful, you must act successful and feel successful. And most of all, wish others success!
97. Back to the future: moonlight and love songs are never out of date for blondes.
98. Stop, look and smell the flowers. But tiptoe through the tulips.
99. Jump over your comfort zone and be glorious.
100. It’s all about how much you really smile, as a smile is the pathway to your inner beauty.
101. “And we should consider every day lost on which we have not danced at least once.” – Friedrich Nietzsche.
102. Stressmakers are your test. Those who cause static, create drama and want to control others are a learning experience.
103. All blondes need to write a principal’s note every so often… just to be excused early. Maybe her hairdresser needs her. Or it’s just a beautiful day.
104. Never stop learning. Everything is possible when you commit to your goal and pursue it with an open mind and open heart.
105. Every once in a while, get lost. Live in the journey. Allow a loved one or a moment to sweep you from your safe zone.
107. “Women who wear black lead colorful lives.” – Neiman Marcus ad.
108. Life is beautiful. And every moment of it is a gift. You may see the beauty or not, but always consider it. The choice is yours!
109. Fun: It’s impossible to have too much! Don’t let a broken heart or a raindrop stand in your way.
110. Healing is an inside job. Loving, changing, and growing need to begin in your heart.
111. To live an extraordinary life, you must think extraordinary thoughts and take extraordinary action and surround yourself with the extraordinary! Cherish every moment!
